It is never just seeing them that is the spooky part, it is the flashbacks, the lingering eye contact, and the internal debate of whether to approach them or not. So, here are some conventional horror movie tropes for fighting this 'evil spirit'.
...remember not to go through any haunted journeys down memory lane.
The first one is to run; pretend you did not see them and vanish away into the crowd. Secondly, you could 'freeze', however, in terms of clubbing, this means standing there sipping your drink, unbothered. Lastly, you could confront the ex with a “hey” or a light smile - nothing too tempting. But, at all times, remember not to go through any haunted journeys down memory lane.
Spotting your ex out can cause all sorts of emotional turmoil. Whether it be sadness, nostalgia, relief or anger, do not let it trick you into thinking you need them back. Remember how far you have come.
If you are feeling particularly down this spooky season, regarding a recent breakup or a general feeling of singleness, make sure to keep a few tricks or treats up your sleeve.
Firstly, dress up for you, whether that means putting on your silliest, scariest, or sexiest costume. Make sure you feel as confident as possible, and remember what Cady said in Mean Girls, “Halloween is the one night a year when girls can dress like a slut and no other girls can say anything about it.” So, take your chance. However we all know Halloween is a time for many to get more intoxicated than usual; so, make sure to check on yourself throughout the night, stay hydrated, have fun, and keep out of the DMs.
...make sure to keep a few tricks or treats up your sleeve.
A final note would be acknowledging it's okay to feel weird and impacted by the spotting of an ex this spooky season, just do not let them haunt your night and cause terror.
Have a safe and spooky Halloween!