I will say that a night out at the club used to be more appealing to me when I spent every day with my friends. A night out at college was fun because you could let loose with people you knew inside out. As I’ve gotten older, a night at the pub seems more appealing. There’s less effort in going to the pub, and it can be a nice way to unwind after work and classes. Friends at university tend to be segregated in a way; I have friends on my course, friends I’ve met randomly and friends made through accommodation.
Clubbing may seem like a good way to get to know people but in reality, it’s only a surface-level way to bond. Dancing with a group of people is fun, but there’s no way to get to know people properly. A night out at the pub allows you to relax and speak to friends, and update them on the various and busy lives we live. The atmosphere is intimate but social. You’re able to get both food and drinks for a more affordable price and have a good natter.
The British pub culture runs deep, having had Public Houses be a place of political and community discussion since the 1700’s but their roots run back to the Middle Ages, with some pubs having been established in 1086.
Pubs also afford more scope for entertainment. Attending pub quizzes or sports nights with friends and family could potentially be more fun than spending the night at a club. It can also be a more inclusive way to spend time with friends who don’t drink, who are able to get themselves non-alcoholic beverages and still be able to enjoy the night.
Clubbing is also fun, but everyone has different tastes in music and it can be difficult to find a place where all your friends can have a good time. It’s also difficult to find the right balance between a ‘dead’ club and one that’s too packed, as one or the other can change your entire experience. There’s a certain clubbing culture at university, and if you want to take part in can be a great time and a good way to spend a couple nights a week. Some people come away with great stories – such as finding friends in cow fields at 3 am (and never letting them forget it).
Hot take; the best part of a night out to the club is the pres. The club itself doesn’t hold any appeal to me, as you’re unable to talk to people or enjoy yourself sober and drinks can wear off pretty fast.
Personally, I think the student population is currently leaning more toward a night at the pub, as it is much less effort than a night at the club. The night tends to end earlier, making it easier for those who have early starts the next morning.
So, pub it or club it? The pub is my vote!