Some say that being single at university means there is more spare time for you to focus on your assignments, coursework, and projects. But, if you can harmonise your time, making it compatible with your love life and studies, then it is possible to thrive in both aspects.
Having all of these things to juggle at once can be overwhelming. So, if you know being in a relationship only enhances stress and anxiety, then you might want to reconsider if it is right for you during your time at uni. However, having a significant other at university might be exactly what you are looking for. Whoever it is, if your relationship and everything that comes along enrichens your life at uni, then maybe a coupled-up life is for you.
After all, you might find 'the one'.
It is all about what makes you happy. Yes, you can ask your friends and family for advice regarding the dilemmas of your love life (whether that be with or without a partner). But if you know you are not content, you must build up the courage to follow your heart. University is the perfect time to learn how to prioritise what is best for you.
As for the single life, party culture, spending lots of time with your friends, being able to fully focus on what you want and your self-growth are all typical ideas that surround the lifestyle. If you know you want this to be at the heart of your university experience, then staying single during these years may be for you. You can always go on dates with your friends, or even on your own. When taking yourself out on a date, be sure to wear an outfit that you feel confident in. It will help make it less scary!
University is the perfect time to learn how to prioritise what is best for you.
If you're also looking to invest energy into building a healthy relationship while enjoying all these other fulfilling experiences, go for it. There might be some hurdles along the way, but with balance, anything is achievable.
Both statuses have their pros and cons. Whichever path you decide to take, do it because you know it is the right choice for you. University is an exciting time where you can explore everything and anything you want. So, take the opportunity and experiment. Whether that be new relationships, experiencing the single life, or taking on long-distance relationships.
It all comes down to personal experiences and what brings you joy.