For many Language students, a third-year placement abroad is the highlight of their university studies. To live in another country for an extended period is a dream for some, and an intimidating thought for others. Whilst most of my fellow Spanish-learning amigos chose to spend their time in neighbouring Spain, I on the other hand booked a one-way flight to Buenos Aires, Argentina.
Yes, I got to see the most incredible landscapes and eat delicious food, yet the key takeaways that made this unique experience travelling as a solo female and working in two inspiring schools so special, were far more different to what I expected. And so, on that note…
Even though a Year Abroad is sure to be an adventure and promise wild nights out in cool trendy cities, the chance to learn from and understand a whole new culture is no other...
For those who go to South America, this is a must! Not only do I encourage you to say yes (or sí!) to all the weird and wonderful experiences on offer, but I also urge you to embrace the Argentine art of spontaneity. Leading up to my Year Abroad I would’ve described myself as a relatively spur-of-the-moment person… oh, was I wrong. Argentinian’s social and often professional lives thrive on impulse and impromptu ideas. A slow, relaxed Sunday often turned into a 15+ gathering for lunch within minutes, followed by a party watching an intense Boca Juniors vs. River football game, and then a 11pm dinner down the road. Admittedly, this unfamiliar lifestyle completely drained my social battery for the first couple of months, but in retrospect, I really miss waking up in the morning, excited to have no plans but to wait and see what the day ahead would bring.
One of the many benefits to living with families is experiencing the abundant number of national festivities first-hand. Boasting over 20 national holidays per year, Argentina’s rich customs and history continue to be publicly commemorated in schools, the workplace, and on the streets. From commercialised holidays such as ‘Day of the Child’, to the more culturally significant 'Malvinas Day', recognising the country’s independence or victims of the military dictatorship, each holiday is equally honoured through feasts, elaborate decoration, and music. Of course, who wouldn’t want a few more Bank Holiday’s back in UK? I definitely would! Despite this, having witnessed Buenos Aires break into song and dance for big and small celebrations time and time again, I wish we too made greater efforts to celebrate our unique, national festivals like St George’s Day and May Day. It’s an excuse to get dressed up, cook special foods and have fun with loved ones – what’s not to love?
Altogether, my fondest memories of Argentina took place around an outdoor table, with an asado cooking away on the parrilla and bottles of Malbec shared amongst family and friends. The warm welcome I received in Argentina was overwhelming at first, however I soon learnt to appreciate this as something simply inherent in their culture. Insisting on treating me like any other daughter or sister, my host families did not hesitate to integrate me into their personal lives. Soon enough, I realised that many my age in Argentina do in fact choose to study and work in their small hometowns after they finish school. Of course, the current economic situation makes this harder for many anyway, but for the most part, it seems young adults don’t actually want to live far from their parents and siblings. Whilst I’m not saying that the same can’t be said in the UK, this is without doubt something which has ultimately now influenced my perspective as I actively prioritise quality family time before I officially flee the nest after university.
Even though a Year Abroad is sure to be an adventure and promise wild nights out in cool trendy cities, the chance to learn from and understand a whole new culture is like no other. As cliché as it sounds, you really do personally develop in ways you wouldn’t expect, and, I suppose, “find yourself”. It is an opportunity to experience other lifestyles and see if there are elements you personally want to adopt into your own. For those who have the opportunity… do it!
That being said, if there’s one lesson Argentina has savagely taught me… British rhythm is no match for a Latin nightclub.
